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This happened just over a week ago. On a Friday afternoon, I called my gf but she was sounding off.
I asked her whats wrong… She told me she missed a job invite scheduled for that day. She didn’t check her mail on time. She further explained that a lady from her church took her CV and submitted to the HR internally.
She called the lady to explain to her and was not pleased with her actions. I told her not to worry that i have the HR’s contact convering that region cause I used to work at that bank in that same region.
I called the HR on Monday morning and explained everything to him. He asked me to tell her to come in on Tuesday morning. I called my gf but her number was switched off. I dropped offline messages for her on WhatsApp. She tried calling me but I missed all her calls, I was busy at work. I called her and told her I’ll call her when I’m home.
When I got home I called her but her voice wasn’t bright. What’s up? She said she can’t take excuse for a day from her boss.
OK…she is a teacher at a private primary school, where her salary is very very very very small.
Her boss, the proprietress, lost somebody and has been very sad all day, so she couldn’t tell.
I don’t want to appear like an insensitive guy though I know very well no boss would care much if the case was reversed. But I was angry that she made me appear like someone that isn’t serious to the HR, and also wasting the opportunity of a better job.
For two days we didn’t talk… We chatted again on Thursday. I later called her, then she started complaining about money…. No money for airtime, no money to go to church and for offering after I asked her about church. She was asking for money just two days after refusing to go for a better offer.
The following morning I called it quits….I told her she doesn’t have a plan for tomorrow. That I needed someone to grow with and she doesn’t seem like someone who wants to grow in life. All she could say was, “I can’t force you to date me. If I am not what you want then it’s OK.” That’s how we ended it.
She couldn’t even see the reason I gave and inquire to know why I said that.
Life is all about taking risks, to go higher you have to raise a leg and stand on a foot. She’s too comfortable where she is and I want to grow.
Lemme also point out that the relationship was only a month old.
Somehow I feel I’m a little bit too harsh with that decision.
Was I Right To Have Ended Things With Her?
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